admin (Dec 12, 2013 - 10:17 pm) I find it ironic that san diego is screaming from the top his voice when he is the impetus behind this segregation. I did not like that he was picking on people. I warned him several times with Nisan. But he didn't listen. Then he picked on Schope. Then Wily. He was on my radar. Over the last two years he also sent me some emails that I thought were a little scary. Like in one were he claims he would ruin anyone that would out him or something. There was something about him that kinda freaked me out. I felt that he was a trouble maker and it could lead to something big later on. So I banned him. When I banned him, he sent me some nasty emails. That in it self is nothing unusual. Some go silently, others huff and puff (hi mnem). But what was unusual about san diego was that he threatened to sue me. A few days after I banned him, I assumed he had gotten over it. Then out of the blue he sends me an email. Something like "Stop with spam right now! I swear I will file a TRO on Monday." Apparently someone was spamming him at work with Ashley Madison emails. Or so he claims. The story he made up is that I was behind that and that he was now going to sue me for that to stop. Obviously I was not happy about that. I am a middle class guy. One income family. I don't have the kind of money to deal with this. I saved up some money to buy a house. I don't want to have to spend that to deal with this. So I am now getting worries what this nutcase is going to do. So a warning to all of you schmucks lining up to email san diego. Be careful. He can be underhanded like that. But he can also be good. Someone outed DSE and that person sent out emails to other (including me) disclosing her identity. san diego also got this email and he came to me with it. So I emailed that person and requested that he not disclose her identity to others. DSE is one of the oldest posters here. So I felt that san diego had done me a solid. So I allowed him back in. He has also apologized about the other stuff since. But the damage was done. I was spooked. Today san diego, tomorrow someone else. This isn't going to end. Ofcourse san diego isn't the first one to threaten to sue me. That honor goes to cherrywheat. But I did not have a kid then. I am now fully responsible for other humans. Hate to this, but those of you that aren't will never get that. It is what it is. So I don't want to deal with this. I have a child that is very difficult. I also have another one on the way in June. I cannot spend my time arguing with you guys as why you were banned and then letting you back on and seeing you go back to do the same thing again. san diego says that once he knows the limit, he will go right up to it. Well, that is an admirable quality for a soccer player or a litigator perhaps. But I do have to earn a living, ya know. I cannot spend this time on you. And there are other things. One of my biggest nightmares is reading a news story with my face and next to that shad's n1gger thread. Or the fact that someone might get outed and then get hurt. Physically hurt. The second major blame goes to the smart phone. None of this fece flinging is new. JDU has always been like this. But see I didnt care about it because I didnt see it. For years I let you guys pretty much do whatever because I was too busy enjoying NYC and working hard. Then came my smartphone. I could now check JDU whenever I wanted - in line, on meetings, on the pot etc. And what I saw bothered me. This isn't about marginalizing the gang of eight or whatever (there are more than 8 for sure). There were trouble makers before you and there will be trouble makers after. This is a solution to a problem. If this doesn't work, we can try something else. At this time I don't have any plans of permanently shutting down the Dome. That could change tomorrow. But I don't have any plans right now. I want this to work. I am actually very curious to see what happens. If this works, I might even make an entirely new site with a new URL. I'll make it google cached so that will attract more visitors. There is talk of going to jdjunkyard or some forums. I encourage it. If you find another place to build the community you want to, you should do it. Less of a headache for me.